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To join, click the green "Join" button on the homepage to create your profile. Alternatively, you can also click the "Find your community" button on the homepage to get started.
You will be matched with other members with the qualities you are seeking, based on similarities and interests.

You can also perform your own searches for matches to find people you are looking for.
Only other members of BAP can view your profile.
To add additional photos, click on the album button on your profile, and click on "add more."


The search function is available in both the dating and social media sections of the site. You can search for members based on your preferences.
Yes. To save your search preferences, click the "save search" checkbox at the bottom of your search form after filling it out.
Your profile will appear in the search results of those you are seeking.

For example, if you indicated on your profile that you are a man seeking a woman, you will only show up in the search results of women seeking men.


There are three main options for communication:

1.) Private Message

2.) Live Chat

3.) Video Chat

You can choose any of these options to initiate a conversation, or you can use one of the flirting tools on the person's profile.
Yes. You can access live chat straight from the top of the profile of the person you want to chat with.
When you receive a new message, you will see a live notification pop-up on your profile as a new message alert. You will also receive an email to notify you in case you are offline.